Ooo, tackling a toughie today – conflict in marriage ;).
First, a few things on what this post is NOT.
It’s not meant to be a complete summary of conflict do’s & don’ts, it’s not a how-to guide for your marriage or relationships and it’s certainly not a tell-all of my own marriage.
It IS musings on a few things we’ve learned in the last six months of marriage and year and a half of couple-ness (which may relate to you too). Writing is my primary way of communicating (yes, Tom has gotten a lot of letters) and it’s a good exercise in transparency. I want to be real about all the up’s and down’s of life. Life has pain and life has joy and how we respond to them shapes what they can do to us. Speaking things that are true helps me keep perspective.
Also, life and love are…
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